Can You Lose Weight Without Starving?

Researchers at Pennsylvania State University are providing some clues to help you achieve permanent weight loss. They are looking at the effects of your food choices and how they affect your ability to lose weight. (The influence of food portion size and energy density on energy intake: implications for weight management. Am J Clin Nutr. 2005 Jul;82(1 Suppl):236S-241S.)

The researchers were interested in finding out what determined how much food people eat at each meal. You might think that people would tend to eat until they were no longer hungry and then stop. Or that they would eat a certain number of calories and their body would sense they had enough and they would stop.

But what they found was somewhat surprising. They found that people tend to eat a meal based on how big it is.

In other words, the participants in the study were used to eating food of a certain size. Whether half a plate, a full plate, a small bowl or a large bowl, they found that people tend to eat the same size meal. It is as though they do not feel it is a full meal unless it is a certain size portion.

The problem of meal size and weight loss is that some foods are much denser than others. For example, fatty meats and rich sauces are much denser than fresh fruits and vegetables.

So when you eat a full plate of fatty meats with sauces and potatoes with gravy you are getting very calorically dense food. It is very easy when eating this kind of food to get excess calories. Even a small number of extra calories will store as fat, and over the years your weight will creep up.

As hard as it may be to believe, if you eat an extra 100 calories per day you will gain nine pounds per year. And it takes very little of this calorically dense food to amount to 100 calories.

The most common solution is to try to cut down on the amount of food at each meal. But as the researchers showed, it is difficult to cut down on meal size. When you eat a smaller meal you do not feel satisfied.

Now, it is true that portions of foods in our modern society have become bloated beyond all reason. A generation ago eight ounces of soda was considered a full serving; now you see people drinking 64 ounce cups.

It used to be that a dinner salad was a portion; now you see restaurants serving a 2000 or 3000 calorie platter of salad heaped with meat, bread, cheese and ladles of salad dressing. This is more food than your body needs for an entire day.

If you are living in this society and are overweight you are suffering from these oversized portions to some degree.

It is not easy to adjust to normal size portions when you have grown used to the large portions. As the research shows, you will not be satisfied until you have eaten your usual volume of food.

If you are used to eating a whole plate of food, you will want to eat a whole plate whether the food is light or heavy. If you are used to eating two bowls of food, you will want to eat two bowls full whether the food is low calorie or high calorie.

But what you can do is change the composition of what you eat. When you eat one of the very dense foods, like fatty meats and rich sauces for instance, you are not generally satisfied with a small amount.

Your body only needs about 600-700 calories for each meal; this is a normal meal size in a lean, healthy adult.

But a small portion of meat and gravy will probably not seem like a meal to you. It is not very likely that you are going to be satisfied with that. You might have to double the portion to feel satisfied.

But a meal with less dense foods, like grains, soups and vegetables, will be a lot of food. There are not too many calories in a bowl of soup and a heap of lettuce, and add some grains and you will have plenty of food. Even with some lean meat you will still get more to eat.

Soup in particular can be very helpful when you are trying to slim down. If it is prepared properly soup can provide a very tasty, nutritious, low-density food. It can help you feel you had a meal and not leave you feeling hungry or deprived.

So when you add in the less calorically dense foods, which are mainly foods like fruits, vegetables, grains and rice, you get a lot more to eat, plain and simple. And it is always easier to stick with your weight loss efforts if you feel you are getting enough to eat.

If you are overweight this is the place to start. Substitute less dense foods for the heavier foods you may be used to. And finally get on the road to permanent weight loss.

Close Kept Secrets to Weight Loss Lesson#5

Lesson #5

Wow! You must be on fire by now burning and churning up those calories on your way to your ideal weight. I know that taking steps to better your life is not always easy. It takes courage to do this. Sometimes it’s easier just to keep in the mind set of surviving and do what you’ve always done. When you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. Is this what you desire? Or do you want something different, something that is absolutely amazing?

You know what I believe? I believe you’re ready to burst out of your shell and manifest everything that is yours by Divine right. You are so ready to soar above the clouds that nothing can stop you from achieving success. God has these plans for you, and he wants you thriving, not surviving. You’re now recognizing what you need to do in order to obey His commands. To thrive means paying attention to yourself so that you can be all that God intends for you. If sometimes you feel that you’re not living God’s plan, He forgives you even when you’re not connected to Him. Now, if God can forgive you, then let’s work on forgiving yourself.

I want you to take out a mirror and look into it while reading the following statements. If you don’t have a hand-held one, then go stand by a mirror.

________________ (Fill in your name), I forgive you for _____________________ (fill in the blank with whatever it is you need to forgive yourself for). I know that you were doing the best you could.

________________ , I forgive you for _________________________.

________________ , I forgive you for _________________________.

________________ , I forgive you for _________________________.

There might be several things you want to forgive yourself for or you might just have a few things. The important thing is to focus on forgiving so you can release it.

Last week I worked with a client who had an amazing break through. Her core issue was not forgiving herself for making mistakes in her second marriage, which led to divorce. She has been very hard on herself for seven years because she thought she asked all the right questions and should have known better. I did chakra work with her and the message was loud and clear…..FORGIVE YOURSELF. (Incidentally, I will explain chakra work in another lesson).

Now, while looking into the mirror, take your right hand and form a fist and rub over the heart and repeat out loud:

Even though I have had the issue of not forgiving myself, I deeply love and accept myself and this issue is healed. Divine Love floods my whole body with light and every cell is filled with love. Say this ten times.

In addition, while the mirror is in front you, tell yourself, “You look marvelous, baby!!”

How do you feel? Stupendous! Awesome! Supercalifragilisticexpealidocious! (Okay, I am a fan of Mary Poppins and I love that word).

Practice! Practice! Practice! (Affirmations, Rapid Eye, Emotional Freedom Techniques, gratitude, forgiveness). The more you do it, the more it just becomes natural to bring in all the positives and surround yourself with them. Your ideal weight is already there. Believe it! Know it! Expect it!

I appreciate you and your efforts and am so grateful that you’re part of my life. I am sending you pink light energy. Hug yourself with this light and be surrounded in love.

A Quick Look at Some of Today’s Most Effective Diets

The idiot-proof diet is all about calorie shifting. That is, in this diet, you shift your food intake throughout the day instead of eating just 3 meals a day. The diet is popular because it’s actually very easy to follow and there are hardly any restrictions when it comes to the types of food you can eat.

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The Idiot-Proof Diet

The idiot-proof diet is all about calorie shifting. That is, in this diet, you shift your food intake throughout the day instead of eating just 3 meals a day. The diet is popular because it’s actually very easy to follow and there are hardly any restrictions when it comes to the types of food you can eat.

The ‘calorie shifting’ model takes place because you eat every two and half hours. The theory is that because your body is consuming calories (energy) constantly throughout the day, it’s always in ‘burning calories’ mode instead of the ‘saving calories’ mode.

When you sign up for the diet, you get access to a diet handbook, an 11-day diet-plan and a diet calculator. You get to pick what foods you like to eat so don’t think that you’ll be tarving in this diet!

NutriSystem

The NutriSystem way of dieting is all about proper meal planning. People love this diet because it takes away the burden of trying to figure out what to eat during their dieting phase. You see, a lot of people actually get confused as to what they can eat when they want to lose weight. That’s not really surprising because there’s so much information out there and for every yay sayer, there is a nay sayer so it’s really tough to know what to eat.

However, with NurtiSystem, they do all the meal planning and portion controlling for you. You just need to sign up to any of their diet programs (e.g., Women’s Program, Men’s Program, Vegetarian Program, etc.) and order a multi-day (usually for 28 days) diet program.

After you choose your diet program, a menu is presented to you and you simply choose what you want to eat. The meals are then delivered to your doorstep at various intervals during your diet program.

The South Beach Diet

The South Beach Diet is popular because the name alone conjures bikini-clad bodies! Add to that the fact that it was founded by a cardiologist, Dr. Arthur Agatston, then you have a sort of ‘doctor recommended, doctor approved’ seal on the diet as well.

At first glance, the South Beach Diet looks a lot like the Atkins Diet in the sense that it restricts carbohydrates during the initial phase of the program (there are 3 phases). The first phase (14 days) encourages ‘normal eating’ in the sense that you can pretty much eat whatever you want but you must NOT eat bread, rice, potatoes, pasta, or baked goods. Fruit is also not allowed. No sugar. No alcohol.

The second phase allows you to SLOWLY introduce these items back into your diet but at lesser levels that you consumed them before of course. The third phase is more about general maintenance.

Weight Watchers

Probably one of the longest running diet programs out there is Weight Watchers. It believes in the overall approach where food, exercise, behavior and support are addressed.

Weight Watchers is known for advocating a point system for foods. Using this system, one calculates the calorie intake of the foods he or she eats. The number of points you can have in a day varies depending on your weight. The beauty of the program is that there are no gut-wrenching food restrictions so you never feel deprived of anything. However, the point system teaches you how to balance your meals so that even if you indulge on one food item, you don’t go overboard and consume too much in a day.